Life's like a wild concept...
What's wild is going to work or doing the same stuff everyday, something you do not like,you feel stuck like there's two of you living in one body,a successful person you've become yet you also the person that didn't ask for any of what you facing, Its not your job to save the world its your job to save yourself, dont be a peoples pleaser,please yourself instead...
Do things you care about ,explore and expand your expectations. We deserve to live our lives however we want, nothing changes itself we gotta make the change. We all think about the things we could have chose differently life's too short for regrets 'move on ' be more like the never look back type, yes certain situations mess us up badly , we get stagnant we can't cope ,can't maintain relationships ,having this inclination to run away all the time and yes we know running away doesn't actually solve .
We try really hard to rid ourselves from the shame and pain that comes with all that ,You don't give up you double down on being the best of everything.We just go along with doing things that no longer makes us happy, I for one stayed in my marriage longer than I should have even though I wasn't happy and in the process i lost myself ...
When it gets rough we just wanna run far away and try to fight the you in me...we try to stay civil in the chaos that's around us,you not the only person drowning in big what hell am I doing with my life kind of questions .You just don't up and move like a wem you stay and fight...uprooting is good under certain circumstances. You not the only only who walks away when the going gets tough ,You can find solace and purpose within you ,we all need that quiet time to hear ourself think and find out what you want and not what everybody accepts of you ,We all need clarity so we make do and we make it work. You don't choose to stand in your happiness that you deserve...
DON'T LET ANYONE WHOS HASNT BEEN IN YOUR SHOES TELL YOU HOW TO TIE YOUR LACES ...
Stay safe
V.
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