Fail early...fail often...fail forward...
It's always frustrating to me when people have a negative relationship with failure.
Failure is a massive part of being able to
be successful; you have to get comfortable with failure; you have to actually seek failure ...failure is where all of the lessons
are. You know when you go to the gym and you work out; you're actually seeking failure. You wanna take your muscle to
the point where you get to failure , because
that's where the adaptation is ,that's where
growth is !!!
Successful people fail a lot... they fail a whole lot more than they succeed.
They extract the lessons from the failure
and they use that energy and they use the wisdom to come around to the next phase of success. You gotta take a shot; you
have to live at the edge of your capabilities. You gotta live where you're almost certain you gonna fail , that's the reason for practice...practice is controlled
failure . You're getting to your limit; you can't lift that, you can't do that until you
get to the point that all of a sudden your
body makes the adjustment and then you can do it !!!
Failure actually helps you to recognize the areas where you need to evolve...
It's crazy because it's like when you've had
a certain amount of success it seems like
it should breed confidence, but it actually doesn't. When you win alot and you lose
the ability to lose...you're now not allowed to lose . You actually lose the ability to create "right "! Cos the reckless abandon
and it's something I'm getting back from,
watching people around me,they really don't care !!!
That kind of reckless abandon and that lack of fear and not trying to protect anything, and not trying to live up to a legacy or anything. Fear is the killer of creativity and its also like misconception of
[ ] failing (it's like no you have to fail a lot,
[ ] You have to fail early, you have to fail often ,and you have to fail forward)
[ ] If you not willing to fail you're never gonna put up that last shot
[ ] I'm motivated by fear ...fear of fear ,I hate being scared to do something !!!