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I am no longer apologizing for being me, YES...I'm confrontational, YES...I'm bluntly honest, YES... If you disrespect me I will politely disrespect you. I am so sick and tired of moulding my personality for the sake of other people's feelings when they have a disregard for my own. I show respect to all but I will not bow down to anyone. Remember it's okay to outgrow people, and it's also okay for them to outgrow you too. Letting go is also letting in...making room for something new is always hard, but it's worth it. When I look back at my life I see pain ,mistakes and heartache, but when I look at myself in the mirror I see strength ,learned lessons and pride in myself !!!

Im too real for people...I believe that the end of something is often the beginning of something new. I don't mope around what's done or what could have been, sometimes we get so caught up with things that we don't see the light. Life is a process of good and bad ,trust your journey. Remember no one changes unless they want to,not if you beg them ,not if you shame them, not even if you use reasons , emotions or tough love. There's only one thing that can make someone change...their own realization that they need to do it. And there's only one time it will happen when they decide they're ready !!!


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Love yourself first... Choose those who choose you...I bet it bothers some people that "at your weakest you're still stronger than them". If standing up for yourself burns bridges; own your matches to


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