When life takes unexpected turns ...we soldier on ,never giving up ,never letting go ... I'm the type of person that always choose not to explain what's wrong with (what's going on inside my head). I'm the kinda person who would rather stay low, until I feel better because I don't like burdening people .
Where some say im an "INTROVERT"
But for me " I just don't like to bother anyone with my problems" .
I'm a strong lady with an uneasy past, I'm proud of my scars ,and I'm even prouder that I am still standing !!!
I am strong but I also get worn out and tired, I understand now that I'm not a mess but a deeply feeling person in a messy world . I explain that now when someone asks me why I cry so often " for the same reason I laugh so much -
Because I'm now paying attention.
I admire people who choose to shine even after all the storms they've been through. I've learnt not to blame myself when things go wrong ,at times even my best efforts don't turn out to be the way I want. Are you living in self-guilt
because you feel responsible for something that took a wrong turn ?
Self-blame is a form of regret that a person carries in their heart for the mishappenings that one feels responsible for. Taking responsibility for your mistakes is a great way to learn
but when we start living with self-guilt,
Is when we create self-inflicted suffering. When this happens,we focus on things that went wrong and our contribution to that mishap. The regret takes over out mind so much that wemake it difficult for ourselves to move on !!!
Don't keep reminding yourself of the mistake that cannot be rectified. Things go wrong ,mistakes happens and at times our judgement can be poor . Learn from your mistakes and aim to improve and allow yourself to move on ...