Finding yourself...is not really how it works! You ain't someone's ten dollar bill in the last winter's coat pocket. You are not lost...your true self is right there, buried under cultural conditioning; other people's opinions and inaccurate conclusions you drew as a child and adult that became your beliefs about who you are..."Finding Yourself" is actually returning to yourself. An unlearning, an excavation...remembering who you were before the world got it's hand on you. It all begins and end in your mind...what you give power to has power over you...if you allow it !!!
Your time; your power and your body may not cooperate every time in your life...but your good nature, good understanding; your spiritual path and true spirit will always cooperate in your life. You know that time is a rare luxury that can never be bought or sold...so when someone spends their time for you, it defines the depth of care and love they have for you. You have to also remember that there is no extra pieces in the universe...you are here on this earth because you have a place to fill...and every piece must fit itself into this big jigsaw puzzle of life. Your mind will always believe anything you tell it ...so feed it hope ,with truth and with love !!!