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Don’t shout at your wife when you are talking or raise your really hurts her. Do not speak evil of her to anyone; your wife will become who you call her.

Do not share her love or affection with another woman, it makes her jealous, insecure and keeps her questioning her capabilities; affairs leads Adultery.

Never compare your wife to another woman; that's bullshit...if the other woman was good for you, then she would be with you. Do not tell your wife how good your friend or colleague smells, dresses and carry out herself, believe me when i say no Wife or Woman wants to hear you praise another lady. Don’t ever allow her to beg or ask you for sex; she owns your body just as you own her body. Be gentle and accommodating, she has sacrificed so much to be with you; and please you, it hurts her deeply when you are harsh and irritating so be tender. Hide nothing from her; and she'll treat you like her King... you are now one and she’s your helpmate, your go to person, make her your best friend. Let there be no secret you are keeping from her, secrets eventually has a way of resurfacing... do not make negative comment about her body, instead praise every part of her. She risked her life and beauty to carry your babies;  remember she is a living soul not just flesh and blood.

Do not let her body determine her worth: coz beauty is skin deep; cherish and appreciate her even till old age !!!

Never shout at her in the public and in private...If you have an issue to sort with her, do it in the privacy of your room.

Thank and appreciate her for taking good care of you, the kids and the house. It is a great sacrifice she is making. Woman loves to her when they are loved and appreciated. All women cannot cook the same way; appreciate your wife’s food... it is not easy to cook three meals a day, 365 days a year for several years. Never place your siblings or anyone before her, she is your wife not your property or your sidechick, she is one with you and must come before your family. Invest seriously in her growth be it spiritual, emotional or physical...Buy flowers, books, tapes and any material that will edify her and strengthen her, that’s the best thing you can do for her. Spend time with her, make her feel like she's your priority, do date nights, spontaneous holidays or just put your arms around her to reassure her how much she means to you. Make time to play with her and enjoy her company remember when you are dead, she’s gonna be by your grave but your friends may be too busy to attend your funeral. Never use money to manipulate or control her, money is the root to all evil... make it known to her that all your money belongs to her. Do not expose her weakness, you will be exposing yourself a shield around her, never cease to tell her how much you love her all the days of her life. Women are never tired of hearing that !!!


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