Everybody isn't your friend !!! So pay attention...
Just because they hang around you and laugh with you doesn't mean they are your friend. People pretend well,at the end of the day real situations expose fake people . Don't entertain negative energy ,some situations will test your patience and try to make you overreact ,overthink ,and respond to things that don't deserve your life force.
Your attention is your power, don't feed what doesn't have value to your life ,protect your energy !!!
You rise up as the strong person you can be,everything that hits you ,you deal with it on your own ability. You allowed to cry yourself to sleep, then pick yourself up dry your own tears carry on preserving. Notice how you've grown from things that meant to break you, you get stronger each time you pick yourself up (self confidence). Change your attitude towards yourself and towards life, its never to late to start over. Never ever give up no matter how hard it gets, inside of you is something special and you have what it takes to be successful, go for it and make a difference, no guts no glory its never too old to dream ...
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can always start where you are and change the ending.
As I look back on my own life I realized that I wouldn't be where I am now if I hadn't lived the life i did ,
good ,bad ,ugly
It all had a purpose in the story of my life . Nobody goes into situations waiting for it all to come crashing down (it's like jumping into the fire expecting to get burnt). I for one didn't see half the shit I've been through coming ,that's never the plan ,but yet you are wondering ,if any good will come of it.
There were times I thought my life was over,I thought nothing good will ever happen for me , but I didn't stay in stagnation I fought hard ,lifted my head above the water (even when I thought I was sinking). Don't give up when life gets hard ,this breaking part of you is actually the making of you . Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things are meant to break you or make you, and certain things will never go back how they used to be (life goes on).
Truth is like a surgery ,it hurts but it heals. A lie is like a painkiller it gives instant relief but has side effects for ever !!!